Here are ten good reasons why committing suicide might not be a good idea.
- Circumstances change (sometimes overnight). ‘Leaving’ too early before things have a chance to resolve themselves may be a big mistake.
- Someone somewhere needs you.
- Someone has to discover your body (which for them could lead to major trauma etc).
- Your story needs telling and the best person to tell it without exaggeration and accurately, is YOU.
- Someone has to deal with the aftermath. Your clothes, your personal effects etc. Not a pleasant task.
- Other people’s guilt. ‘I didn’t do enough to save/help him/her’.
- The positive contributions you could have made…GONE.
- The BAD/SAD example you leave behind.
- The young people in your family and their puzzlement, bewilderment and fear.
- You are leaving a ‘YOU’ shaped hole that no-one else can ever fill.